I Love You नंतर काय

मध्यंतरी एक गंमत झाली ....
माझ्या एका मैत्रीणीचा मला फोन आला .....
स्वरात एकदम प्रचंड काळजी....
अरे मी फारच तणावात आहे .... का ग काय झालय असे?
अरे माझा मुलगा आता मोठा झाला की रे...
म्हणजे मला कळले नाही?? आणी मग तो मोठा झाला तर तुला का टेंशन ?
अरे काय सांगू तुला ...तो मला परवा विचारत होता ....आई तुला एक विचारू?
मला कलेच ना अस का म्हणतोय हा.... अरे विचार की बिनधास्त .....
पण बाबाना नाही ना सांगणार तू ? त्याची शंका ...
मग मी पण थोडीशी सतर्क झाले .... पण अगदी आश्वासक स्वरात त्याला बोलले ...
बोल बाला बोल .... मग थोड़े इकडे तिकडे बघत तो म्हणाला .....
आई I Love You च्या पुढे काय असते ग?
म्हणजे.....? मला नाही कळले? काय विचारायचय बाळ तुला?
अग आई ती स्वीटी माहिती आहे ना तुला आमच्या ग्रुप मधली ....
ती ना मला आवडते ..... आणी मग मी तिला म्हणलोय की I Love You ....
आता ती ना माझ्यापेक्षा थोड़ी मोठी आहे .... पण दिसते मात्र एकदम मारू....
मला खुप आवडते .... पण मी १४ फेब्रुवारी ला तिला sms पाठविला ना तेव्हापासून ना ती मला टाळते आहे बघ .....
आई मी काही चुकलो का? मला ना काहीतरी चुकलय अस वाटतय.....
अग आई I love you बोलल्या नंतर जर कोणी आपल्यावर रागवत असेल ...
आपल्यापासून दूर जात असेल तर मग काय करावे ग?
हे Love इतके ख़राब असते का ग?
आता मात्र मला कलेच ना की काय सांगू मी ह्या मुलाला ?
प्रेम ही भावना कळन्याचे वय हलूवार पणे खुलन्याचे हे वय....
आणी ह्या मुलाला अस वाटतय?
अरे अस काही नसते .... ती ना लाजली असणार ...आणी म्हणून टाळत असेल तुला...... बघ.....
नाही ग ... ती ग्रुप ला येते पण माझ्याकडे बघत पण नाही ....
अग सांग ना ममा..... काय असते I Love you च्या नंतर ....
आता मात्र मला एकदम हलल्या सारखे झालं ....
अरे मी चाचपडत बोलले .... बाळ आता असू दे ....
मी निशब्द आणी तो आश्चर्यचकित ....
सांग ना सुनील काय सांगू त्याला रे I Love You नंतर काय ते माझा मुलगा खरच रे मोठा झाला का?
अरे खरच का असते काही Love नंतर ....

See the Unseen!

See the Unseen!

Yesterday one of my friends said something which is a piece of great wisdom.

She said, “If you like someone, you should like almost everything about him/her."

This is the first time I gave concentration to this thought. If you look around most of us are busy in finding shortcomings of people . We are letting go a wonderful opportunity of finding the best in people we love.

Let’s appreciate people for what is good in them. Start with the very small thing you like about them and everyday find just one good thing. See what normally you are not able to see.Tell them what you like about them. Tell them why you want to be with them. This will make your relationship strong & warm, for ever.

Life is too short for finding negatives, find positives!!

आई

आई हा एक शब्द आहे असं म्हणण व्यर्थ आहे कारण त्यात आहे जे वात्सल्य शब्दात उतरवणं आहे ते अशक्य!! तरी हा एक प्रयास आहे तिच्याच वाढदिवसाला छोटीशी एक भेट आहे .. आई म्हणजे मंदिराचा उंच कळस आई म्हणजे अंगणातील पवित्र तुळस आई म्हणजे भजनात गुणगुणावी अशी संतवाणी आई म्हणजे आरतीत वाजवावीअशी लयबध्द टाळी आई म्हणजे वेदनेनंतरची सर्वात पहिली आरोळी....... मी एक चातक आहे तर ती पर्जन्यचा थेंब आहे मी अत्तर तर ती त्यातला सुगंध आहे माझ्या आयुष्याची ती एक चित्रकार आहे अंधारात मला दिसणारा आशेचा किरण आहे कोणत्याही वादळात तग धरून राहीलेली माझ्या आयुष्यातील कल्पतरु आहे जिच्यामुळे मी, माझी कविता आहे ती माझी......माझीच फक्त आई आहे.

The Fish and the Turtle

The Fish and the Turtle

Once upon a time there was a fish. And just because it was a fish, it had lived all its life in the water and knew nothing whatever about anything else but water. And one day as it swam about in the lake where all its days had been spent, it happened to meet a turtle of its acquaintance who had just come back from a little excursion on the land.
"Good day, Mr. Turtle!" said the fish. "I have not seen you for a long time. Where have you been?""Oh", said the turtle, "I have just been for a trip on dry land."
"On dry land!" exclaimed the fish."What do you mean by on dry land? There is no dry land. I had never seen such a thing. Dry land is nothing.""Well," said the turtle good-naturedly. "If you want to think so, of course you may; there is no one who can hinder you. But that's where I've been, all the same."
"Oh, come," said the fish. "Try to talk sense. Just tell me now what is this land of yours like? Is it all wet?""No, it is not wet," said the turtle. "Is it nice and fresh and cool?" asked the fish."No, it is not nice and fresh and cool," the trutle replied."Is it clear so that light can come through it?""No, it is not clear. Light cannot come through it.""Is it soft and yielding, so that I can move my fins about in it and push my nose through it?""No, it is not soft and yielding. You could not swim in it.""Does it move or flow in streams?""No, it neither moves nor flows in streams.""Does it ever rise up into waves then, with white foams in them?" asked the fish, impatient at this string of Noes."No!" replied the turtle, truthfully. "It never rises up into waves that I have seen." "There now," exclaimed the fish triumphantly. "Didn't I tell you that this land of yours was just nothing? I have just asked, and you have answered me that it is neither wet nor cool, not clear nor soft and that it does not flow in streams nor rise up into waves. And if it isn't a single one of these things what else is it but nothing? Don't tell me." "Well, well", said the turtle, "If you are determined to think that dry land is nothing, I suppose you must just go on thinking so. But any one who knows what is water and what is land would say you were just a silly fish, for you think that anything you have never known is nothing just because you have never known it." And with that the turtle turned away and, leaving the fish behind in its little pond of water, set out on another excursion over the dry land that was nothing.

Another Good Story I recieved in my mail box ...here to share with you all

Just Pray .....

Never pray for an easier life, pray to be a stronger person. Never pray for tasks equal to your power but for power equal to conquer your taskTrusting God won't make the mountain smaller but it'll make the climb easier. Hope u'll be able to climb all ur mountains today & everyday.When you're a winner you're always happy, but if you're happy as a loser you'll always be a losers

ATTITUDE That Counts....

''The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of their minds.''
~ William James


There was a man who made his living, selling balloons at a fair. He had balloons of different colors, including red, yellow, blue and green. Whenever business was slow, he would release a helium-filled balloon into the air. When the children saw the balloon go up, they all wanted one. They would come up to him, buy a balloon and his sales would go up. All day, he continued to release a balloon whenever the sales slowed down.
One day, the balloon man felt someone tugging at his jacket. He turned and a little boy asked, ''If you release a black balloon, would that balloon also fly?'' moved by the boy's concern, the man replied gently, ''Son, it is not the color of the balloon, it is what is inside that makes it to go up.''


The same principle applies to our lives
It's what's inside that counts. And what is inside of us that makes us go up is our attitude. The foundation of success, regardless of your chosen field, is attitude.

~ A Story forwarded by a friend.

The Success Of Marriage........................

A short story Recently I read ...Its not Mine ... Of some one elses..but its really worth reading .... Plz read it and ur comments are welcome .... 

The Success Of Marriage........................

-I'M Sure U all Will Enjoy This Short Story.......

Once upon a time a married couple celebrated their 25th marriage anniversary. They had become famous in the city for not having a single conflict in their period of 25 years. Local newspaper editors had gathered at the occasion to find out the secret of their well known "happy going marriage". 

Editor: "Sir. It's amazingly unbelievable. How did you make this possible?" 

Husband recalling his old honeymoon days said: "We had been to Shimla for honeymoon after marriage. Having selected the horse riding finally, we both started the ride on different horses. My horse was pretty okay but the horse on which my wife was riding seemed to be a crazy one. 

On the way ahead, that horse jumped suddenly, making my wife topple over. Recovering her position from the ground, she patted the horse's back and said "This is your first time". She again climbed the horse and continued with the ride. After a while, it happened again. This time she again kept calm and said "This is your second time" and continued. When the horse dropped her third time, she silently took out the revolver from the purse and shot the horse dead !! 

I shouted at my wife: "What did you do you psycho. You killed the poor animal. Are you crazy?" . 

She gave a silent look and said: "This is your first time!!!"." 

Husband:” That’s it. We are happy ever after. "

मानसिकता

नुकतीच वाचण्यात आलेली एक लघु कथा ...मनाला भावली ...तुम्हा सगळ्या मित्रा साठी ...

सांयकाळी समुद्रकाठी फ़िरताना एक वृद्धानं एका लहानग्याला किनार्‍यावर काहीतरी उचलून समुद्रात फ़ेकताना पाहिलं. आश्चर्य वाटून तो त्याच्या जवळ गेला तर तो समुद्राकाठचे तडफ़डणारे तारामासे एक-एक करुन पुन्हा समुद्राच्या पाण्यात फ़ेकत होता.न राहावून त्यानं लहानग्याला विचारलं, ;समुद्रकिनारी इतके हजारो मासे आहेत, तु कुणा कुणाला वाचवू शकणार आहेस??.. मुठभर मासे वाचवून जगाला असा काय फ़रक पडणार आहे?त्या मुलाने आणखी एक मासा समुद्रात फ़ेकत निरागसपणे उत्तर दिलं, यानं जगाला काय फ़रक पडेल ते माहीत नाही. पण या माशाला विचारा, त्याला काय फ़रक पडला? ज्याचा मी नुकताच जीव वाचवला.

Confidence level

Confidence level


Story told by a man which is most frightening yet thought-provoking experiences of his life.

He had been on a long flight. The first warning of the approaching problems came when the sign on the airplane flashed on: "Fasten your seat belts."

Then, after a while, a calm voice said, "We shall not be serving the beverages at this time as we are expecting a little turbulence. Please be sure your seat belt is fastened."

As he looked around the aircraft, it became obvious that many of the passengers were becoming apprehensive. Later, the voice of the announcer said, "We are so sorry that we are unable to serve the meal at this time. The turbulence is still ahead of us."

And then the storm broke. The ominous cracks of thunder could be heard even above the roar of the engines. Lightening lit up the darkening skies and within moments that great plane was like a cork tossed around on a celestial ocean. One moment the airplane was lifted on terrific currents of air; the next, it dropped as if it were about to crash.

The man confessed that he shared the discomfort and fear of those around him. He said, "As I looked around the plane, I could see that nearly all the passengers were upset and alarmed. Some were praying.

The future seemed ominous and many were wondering if they would make it through the storm. And then, I suddenly saw a girl to whom the storm meant nothing. She had tucked her feet beneath her as she sat on her seat and was reading a book.

Everything within her small world was calm and orderly. Sometimes she closed her eyes, then she would read again; then she would straighten her legs, but worry and fear were not in her world. When the plane was being buffeted by the terrible storm, when it lurched this way and that, as it rose and fell with frightening severity, when all the adults were scared half to death, that marvelous child was completely composed and unafraid."

The man could hardly believe his eyes. It was not surprising therefore, that when the plane finally reached its destination and all the passengers were hurrying to disembark, he lingered to speak to the girl whom he had watched for such a long time.

Having commented about the storm and behavior of the plane, he asked why she had not been afraid.

The sweet child replied,

"Sir, my Dad is the pilot and he is taking me home."

When you are sure of your self, your confident level is steady and you are never shaky you do the things calmly and successfully.



Friends Another Nice story which I received in my mail box and which I liked and wanted to share with you all

आजकाल ...
आजकाल मी ठरवून टाकलय...
मी ठरवून टाकलय की ...
साधू संत आणी साध्वींच्या नादी लागायचे नाही...
त्यांच्या प्रवचनाला आणी कीर्तनाला मु ळी च जायचे नाही...
रस्त्याने जाताना चुकून कुठे त्यांचे प्रवचन, कीर्तन सुरु असेल
तर आपला चेहरा घट्ट बांधून घ्यायचा ,
लपवून ठेवायचा.......
त्यांच्या प्रवचन कीर्तनात आपला चेहरा कुट्ठे कुट्ठे दिसू नये ...
फोटोत ...ह्याची काळजी घ्यायची...
का? माहिती आहे??
उद्या कुठे बॉम्बस्फोट झाला .....
ह्यांच नाव आल .....
ए टी एस ची चौकशी सुरु झाली .....
आणी त्यांच्या प्रवचनात माझा फोटो दिसला तर....
तर लागेल ना माझ्या मागे ससेमिरा ए टी एस चा...
अरे भारतीय लष्कराला नाही सोडल त्यांनी
तिथे मी किस झाड़ की पत्ती.....
तसा मी माराला नाही घाबरत ....
पण बदनामी नको हो ....
एक साधा मध्यमवर्गी नाकासमोर पाहून चालणारा मी
त्यामुले ठरवून टाकलय मी....
आजकाल ठरवून टाकलय मी .....